The Happy Mama Project

Welcome to the Happy Mama Project. I’m glad you are here! This project has been burning in my heart for several years, but 2020 is finally the time to take it public. And so, even though it’s scary for me to be this vulnerable…I’m going to do it anyway. Because God told me to. Because I know that some other mom out there needs what He has taught me. Because I can’t sit here in my cozy little home with my husband, 5 kiddos, 2 kittens and a dog, and ignore the deep desire to help God’s children become the person He designed them to be, the way He has helped me. So…here we go!

For 15 years I have been on the search for the right pieces to the puzzle that would help me finally enjoy this journey of motherhood and mortality. We women are really good at enduring to the end, but many of us are doing just that-enduring-with very little joy along the way. Many of us are struggling with depressed and anxious feelings, with overwhelm, with guilt and shame and everything in between. We desperatly want to experience feelings of peace, of happiness, and of purpose. But we don’t really know how. At least I didn’t. And so we continue to struggle-silently most of the time, because we don’t know what else to do but endure.

Over the years I have tried just about everything I could get my hands on…every kind of therapy under the sun, counseling, medication and everything in between. And many of those things helped in some way, but nothing seemed to make sustainable emotional and mental wellness possible. It seemed like some elusive pipe dream that was never going to be part of my reality. But in my heart I knew that there were answers out there. I could feel God reminding me that He had not forgotten me, and that if I kept searching, and praying, and searching….He would help me find it. And He did.

I don’t have all the answers, but I have many. And I can tell you that how I feel now compared to how I felt even 18 months ago is NIGHT and DAY different. It’s not perfect. I still struggle from time to time with anxious feelings-I still have to be very diligient in my daily habits to keep things under control. And when things get out of control I still fight feelings of depression and sadness. But they don’t last, and I have tools to work through it instead of crawling into bed and ignoring the world. And I call that a WIN!

Developing these tools and mastering the habits needed for sustainable emotional and mental wellness are what the Happy Mama Project is all about. It’s an opportunity for me and you up our game. It’s a chance to learn the tools and habits needed to have sustainable emotional and mental wellness. And we can do it together! Join me!